Does It Always Seem Like You Are Struggling To Get What You Want?

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Are you working so hard at achieving your dreams and desires, but they just don’t seem to show up?

You’re not alone. Most people struggle with this exact same thing.

It keeps you stuck in the crap of where you currently are in your life.

How much fun is that?

Well here’s the thing…

There are two sides to your life.

There are the IN-Side and the OUT-Side.

As you were growing up, you were told and taught to focus on the OUT-Side of your life.

You were told to do this… don’t do that… you can’t do that… stop doing that…

It was a life of do.do.do…. dodo!

Can you relate?

How has that worked out for you thus far on your journey?

Now don’t get me wrong… Life is about taking action and getting things done, but if that is the only thing you are focused on, then you might end up doing things that just never needed to be done in the first place.

Let’s look at the IN-Side.

If you grew up in any type of spiritual community or with parents that played those self-help tapes and went to seminars… then you had some exposure to the IN-Side of who you BE.

It is through this Knowing of who you BE and having it as the guiding principles of your life, that keeps you on track, and in focus of all your dreams and desires you have ever had and envisioned for your life. It is the driver behind your Dream Life, your Business Vision, and what you are truly put on this planet to accomplish.

How awesome is that?

Your very own internal compass that helps you make the best choices for you based on who you BE.

So if we don’t have this IN-Side.. OUT-Side connection happening a few things happen.

  1. If we are all OUT-Side living, we keep doing the do and creating the dodo in our life that spirals out of control and keeps us stuck in a place that we don’t even realize that we are in. We are not even sure if we are doing what we really need to do, and can easily be distracted by others to do what they want us to do instead of supporting ourselves. In this state you have no idea what you really desire and dream of for your life, but even if you did, you probably don’t believe that it is possible for you.
  2. If you are all IN-Side living, you keep in a state of fantasy rather than reality. You constantly see in your mind and soul what is possible for your life, but you never make any choices and take any action to make your dreams and desires into reality. You are stuck in a place of unconsciousness living that holds you back from what is possible for you in your life.
  3. Is the Ying & Yang balance between IN and OUT – Side living. It is both BEING and DOING. This is the optimal place of living our your life fully and having everything you have always wanted, dreamed of and desired.

So here’s how things really work so you can stop the struggle and have success…

You need to shift from DODO or a BEBE to a BEDOBEDOBEDO… Yes that’s right.

Here’s how it works:

First you BE, then you CHOOSE, then you DO!

Then you repeat the cycle.

Who you BE is what you DO

It’s really that simple…. but if you have been stuck in one of the other states for a while now, breaking the habit and choosing this for your life may take some time, discipline and effort.

But know this… on the other side of all that, lies the life of your dreams. It is so worth it.

Go out and try it today.

See how you truly be and what you can choose to do and make it happen.

You’ll be glad you did.

Keep your dreams alive!


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