Unlearn Your Way To Success
What If Everything You Know Is What Has Been Holding You Back From The Success You Deserve?
What do you think keeps you stuck where you are on your life journey?
Is it the stuff that you don’t yet know?
The things that you haven’t learned yet?
So many people get stuck on the things that they don’t know how to do and allow that to keep them from doing the things that they already know how to do.
A mentor of mine would always remind me…
“If you would only do what you already know what to do, things would be better.”
In fact, if there are things that you don’t know that you don’t know how to do, how can you do them anyway since you don’t know.
This is true about stuff that we are not skilled at and it holds people back big time in both their business and their life.
It has certainly happened to me from time to time on this glorious journey.
Has it happened to you?
Well what if you are doing all the things that you know how to do and things are just not going the way that you expect them to?
What if you are not getting the results that you desire to have in your business and life?
What if there is another side to this thing about learning and doing.
There always is another side. Everything has at least 2 sides to it.
You can’t have one without the other.
So with that said…
What if the things that are keeping you stuck are not about learning something that you don’t know how to do at all?
What if it what is holding you back is what you already know and all you have to do is unlearn it and you will instantly breakthrough?
Now I know what you must be thinking… This is obvious. We have to get rid of old habits that no longer serve us.
I get it. But most people are focused on the next thing that will take them somewhere rather than looking at where they have been that has got them to the point they are at right now.
Here are 3 things that most people need to unlearn in order to unlock their success:
Addiction to the Outcome…
Most people are so stuck on the outcome that they desire to have that it totally blocks their awareness of possibilities that exist for them to achieve all that they desire in their life. This focus on outcomes is based on the goal setting paradigm that has flooded the business and personal growth space. What if instead of focusing on the outcomes that you allow yourself to keep your vision in tack, through away your goals, and create some targets that you can shoot at and if you miss, you simply choose new ones or shoot at it again. Drop your need to achieve the outcome in the way that you envision it to be and watch how you can move forward with more ease.
Knowing all the Steps…
All people who are stuck in their lives are focused on knowing every detail of what it is going to take to make it happen. The step by step plan that will get them there. What if this was holding them back? What if it was keeping you from even getting started in the first place. When you can see all of the steps in your mind of what it will take to get to a certain outcome, sometimes it tricks your mind into believing that it has already happened and you end up doing nothing, where in reality nothing has even been started. Through away your desire to know all the steps and just take the first one and the rest of the path will appear. You can choose at each step along the way which one to take.
Success of Others…
Seeing others having success at the same thing that we have in mind to do and be holds a lot of people back. In business it is all about the competition. I talked about what the real competition should be in your business in this post here. Rather than having it make you stuck, use the success of others to help you move forward by knowing it can be done. Don’t let others success and competition hold you back.
On the journey towards the life of your dreams and desires, there are both learning and unlearning that will lead to your success.
What will you choose to unlearn in your life today?
Take action to breakthrough now.
You’ll be glad you did.
Keep your dreams alive!
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