The Power Of Feedback


Do you know what it takes to get crystal clear on exactly what you need to do to make more money and have a bigger impact on your life and the world?


It may be simpler than you think.

But it’s something that more people completely overlook.

The more people Showing Up BIG in the world each and every day, the better the world will be.

Do you agree?

There is a huge misconception that most people have about what it took for successful people to get there.

They think that success comes to them instantly. Like an overnight success. They don’t realize what it really took for them to get there.

In my journey of building a business from a dream and vision I had for the future, we became a 6 year over night success when we landed our first major customer…

When we had finally arrived. But looking back, there were a lot of things we tried and failed at along the way to get there. We just did what ever it took to make it happen.

What I learned from this was…

“On the path to Success, Failure is the only option that will get you there!”

But here most people live in the delusion that successful people have never failed and just have been doing everything right all the time.

Well it’s time to Burst That Bubble. The only thing that is different between successful people and the people who just struggle through life is:

“The people who are successful do what the people who are not successful are not willing to do!”

Yep, it’s as simple as that.

When two people are presented with the exact same opportunity and possibility for themselves, that one will take off and have huge success and the other will just stay stuck in the same place.

Which would you rather choose?

The other thing that successful people do on your path to success is that they ask people for their feedback on what they are doing, creating, and being.

There is one thing that so many people who I have come to know… is that the Fear of Getting Negative Feedback Holds Them Back.

They end up just not even asking. But if you just asked for some feedback on what you are doing it would help you out to move forward faster towards your dreams and keeping you stuck.

So decide today to get out of your own way and choose to do what most others are not willing to do.

Choose to ask for feedback and receive it in a way that can support your dreams and desires for the future in your life.

Change your focus from what you fear to what is possible!

Are you ready to step up and Live BIG in Your Life?

Do it NOW!

Start Today!

Keep your dreams alive!

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Get Real


Are you ready to wake up and get real with yourself?


One of the reasons that people don’t achieve the life of their dreams is they are not being honest with themselves.

Not being honest with about where they are in their life and the choices that they made that got them there.

Can you relate?

I spoke a bit about this topic in a recent post 100% Responsibility.

You see… Most people would rather Complain, Blame, or Feel Really Awful instead of looking inside of themselves and seeing how they are creating the reality of their life.

If you know of people in your life that have do this, I am sure you can relate.

But, In order to transform your current state into one of Fulfillment, Abundance, Joy, and Happiness… your first step is to Get Real with yourself and be totally and Completely Honest about Who you are and Where you are at in this moment in your journey of life.

And let’s face it, we can all use a good dose of Get REAL in our lives from time to time.

Ask yourself these questions:

  1. Is this really what I want for my life?
  2. Is what I am doing, how I am living and being, truly serving me in my life?

Go ahead and ask them to yourself. Don’t worry about the answers… just open yourself up enough to really take a look at what is the truth of your reality in your life RIGHT NOW!

If you don’t take this step and get real with who you are right now, you will continue to make the choices and be stuck in your life as it is forever. Stuck in the spiral and matrix of your life without any hope of getting out.

So start to be honest and get real now so that you can jump forward into the life you have always dreamed of and desired.

You deserve it.

Are you ready?

Take the leap and build up your wings on the way down.

It’s go time!

Your time to show up BIG in the world and live your dreams.

Start NOW!

Keep your dreams alive!

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Who To Be With


Who do you spend your time with?


Did you know…

The people around you and those that you surround yourself with have a massive influence on who you will be and become in your life.

Most people are not even thinking about the effect that people have on them as they let them into their lives every day.

If you want to receive more in all that you do, you need to get around people who already have what you want and desire for your life and business.

It is said that you are the average of the 5 people that you spend the most time with.

In all the key areas of your life including:



Let’s do a little exercise.

Take some inventory for a moment.

Grab a pen and a piece of paper.

Ok… Take a look at your life as it is today, right now at this moment.

List out the 5 people that you spend the most time with.

Grab your pen and write them down.

Now for each person you have written down, list out their

Relationship Status
Success In their Business

Now review what you have written down and ask yourself this question:

Is my situation in all these areas the average of these peoples?

I bet that it is?

There is no other way you can be.

And now with that new awareness about anabolic steroids, you can make new choices and move forward with amazing energy.

Most people have no idea on the influence that the people they spend time with have on their lives.

They are busy doing the following:

Living In Fear
Stuck In Less than Ideal Situations
Struggling Financially
or Simply Holding Back from showing up BIG in their lives.

Can you relate?

I know I can. I have been there, and sometimes I still go back to visit from time to time.

But it’s ok.

You can choose another path.

You have already taken the first step in creating an awareness around the steroid fact that this is true for your life.

How awesome is that?

Now that you are ready to step it up in your business and life and Show Up BIG every day…

It is time for you to take a leap of faith and build some new connections and relationships.

Think of one person that you admire and respect that has achieved something that you are desiring to have and be in your life.

Got someone in mind? Maybe you have a few of these people.

Write them down.

Now pick one and reach out to them.

Introduce yourself.

Tell them what you admire about them.

Start building a relationship.

With this step, you will start to move yourself away from the negative people in your life that are keeping you stuck and towards the people that you know deep down in side will allow you to move forward towards the life you have always dreamed about.

Go build a new relationship today.

Keep your dreams alive!

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Know More To Make More


Do you know where you are at in your business right now?


Most people have no idea where things are at with their business.

Do you know why?

Well, it’s because of the fact that, when it comes to their business, most people don’t know or look at their numbers!

But… In order to make more you must first become aware of exactly where you are right now.

Otherwise, you get stuck in the same old same old of what you have always done.

How has that been working out for you?

Now, you don’t have to get upset, worried, or even angry when it comes to not knowing about your numbers in your business.

Most of the people in the world are in just the same boat as you.

What you do need to do, is get to know where you are at with your numbers in order to figure out where you want to go and how you are going to get there.

Once you have created that foundation and platform for yourself and your finances, you will be in a place to spring board into the business that can support the life you have always dreamed of and desire.

How does it get any better than that?

More of that life for me please…

Most people avoid looking at their numbers when it comes to their business and they do everything in their power to avoid it.

So where is the energy going in this kind of situation?

Most certainly it is not be used to move you forward towards your vision of a great future you have for yourself.

It is sucking all that energy of hope, joy, ease, and action and putting it towards where you are currently stuck.

Can you relate?

You are probably feeling some forms of guilt, shame, or even denial when it comes to finances in your life. RIGHT?

Don’t worry. It doesn’t have to be that way. All it takes is a simple shift. A shift that will totally transform your business and how you look at your numbers in the future.

And you can start that shift today right now.

How awesome is that?

In order to make that shift, you need to make a choice. Choose to take a look at your numbers. Here is how you can do it to start.

1. List out all of your accounts where you have money in.
2. List out all of your accounts where you currently have debt.
3. List out all of the sources of income that you have coming in on a regular basis.

Write these down on a piece of paper.

Now you have a starting point. You have moved into the awareness of where you are at.

Before you panic and start to freak out, which is totally normal if you have not been having any awareness over your numbers and finances for a long time in your life, and take a few deep breaths.

It is much better to be aware of where you are at and conscious of your current reality.

And because now that you know what you know. You can consciously make choices and take actions that can alter your reality and bend it towards the vision you have of your dream business and life in the future.

So stop being afraid of your numbers and embrace where you are at today.

Then take that energy and use it as fuel to propel you forward towards what you desire most in your life.

You can do it.

Now that you know more you can make more of everything in your life.

How does it get any better than that?

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Asking For Permission


Do you ask for permission for everything you do in your business and life?


Most people spend their life asking for permission to do things and at the same time, worrying about whether they are doing what is right.

I can bet that these people are not really living the life that they want and desire.

So what is holding them back?

Why do most people go through life trying to do the right thing all the time.

Why are most people always feeling they need permission to do things?

If you have ever been a parent to a child or been a child yourself 🙂 , then you know that from a very young ask, you were taught that you had to ask for permission if you wanted something or wanted to do something. As a parent, you thought this was what you needed to do to raise your kid. Heck, that’s what your parents did and you turned out alright, so why not do just the same thing as a parent yourself, right? As a kid, you didn’t know any better and learned that this asking for permission stuff usually got what you wanted, when done the right way of course 🙂

The permission game continues when we go to school. We have to ask for permission for everything from speaking to going to the washroom. How much fun is that? How do you think that had an effect on what you believe you have to do to get something that you want?

This continued until you left school and were out on your own.

You thought, great, I’m free now. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. No more asking for permission.

That lasted long enough for you to get a job, have a relationship, and start your family. The permission thing started right back up for you again.

I have to tell you, it is one of the major things that is keeping you back in life from moving boldly ahead towards your desires and dreams.

Asking for permission!

If you are stuck in the asking for permission spiral in your life, always trying to do the right thing, then maybe it’s time for you to adopt a new philosophy and do something else.

Here is what I learned while in Graduate School back in the late 1990s.

Instead of asking for permission for everything you want…

Go and do what you want and then ask for forgiveness later!

That it’s it.

Ask For Forgiveness.

This philosophy and shift in my thinking allowed me to boldly step forward asking for forgiveness along the way and create a multi-million dollar technology business.

So, what are the things that are holding you back that you are waiting for permission to do?

What is it going to take for you to step forward and do it, and ask for forgiveness later?

Most of the time, the asking for forgiveness never even has to be done.

So try it out.

Take that step, that action that will move you closer to the life of your dreams and desires.

And ask for forgiveness later if you have to.

To your massive success!

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Failure Is The Only Option


Could Failure NOT Being An Option Be Keeping You From Your Business Success??

No Failure Zone

Most people spend their life in Fear Of Failing!

Can you relate?

Do you know some of these people?

Have you worked in this way before?

I know that I have, and let me tell you…

It didn’t really get me any where except going around in circles being stuck with where I was.

How does it get any better than that?

You see, most of us are brought up to do what we are told, follow the rules, don’t do anything wrong and FAILURE IS NOT A OPTION!

Really, how the heck can we go through life and live out our dreams if that is the way we have to be.

When you look around and study the great leader, inventors, and creators of this time and the past, you will find that they all did the opposite of what they were told, what people said they should do, and the failed a lot!

In fact, I have come to believe that on the path to success and the life of your dreams…

Failure is the ONLY OPTION!

How has failure played a role in your life and business?

Are you afraid of it?

Does it worry you?

Does it keep you up at night?

Well let me tell you, it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to feel like failure is something that you did wrong.

One of the greatest inventors in history, Thomas Edison, was asked a question about failure at one point in his career.

They asked him about the 10,000+ times that he failed in his journey to invent the light bulb.

To which he replied, I just learned 10,000 ways how not to create one.

It is all a matter of perspective when it comes to failure.

And also the choice that you make when you stuff shows up around things that don’t go just as planned.

On the journey towards the life of your dreams, you will come across many times where things don’t work out the way you wanted and there will be people there to let you know that that is the reason why you should stop continuing to pursue your vision of the future.

When those things come up, I suggest the following:

1. Take a deep breath and remind yourself of what your vision and dream life is. Feel what it will be like once you are there, and let that feeling be the driving force behind you continuing to move forward.

2. Make the choice to keep moving forward. Remember your decision that you made to start on this journey in the first place. Let that fuel you to continue on the journey.

3. Ask powerful questions like, What’s right about this situation that I am not seeing here? Or What else is possible?

4. Take massive action to move you forward and push past the so called failure that is right in front of you.

Failure is only what you choose for it to be. If it wasn’t they everyone would see the same failures as everyone else.

So the next time something doesn’t go exactly as planned and people around you are dragging your down, or maybe even that voice in your head starts barking at you… Remember your dreams and vision and choose to continue on the journey.

You’ll be glad that you did.

To your massive success!

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Winning At The Wrong Game


What game are you playing in your life and business?


The journey of life is like a game.

Would you agree?

Think about it for a minute.

Isn’t everything that you do in your life organized in a way that will produce the outcomes that you have been telling yourself that you want over and over in your head?

Looking at your past, you can see the step by step blueprint that got you to where you are right now.

It’s the Play by Play.

And what do most people do with that blueprint?

They burn it into their mind and play it over and over again in their life.


Can you relate?

Have you been playing the instant replay of the game of your life over and over again?

How’s that working out for you?

How is that helping your to get to the desired life you have always dreamed about?

Is it really helping?


Is it just keeping you stuck?

It reminds me of the Movie Ground Hog Day with Bill Murray.

Check out what he went through day after day…

He live the same day over and over and over again until he makes a choice to do something different and then in an instant it changes.

How would you like your life to change in an instant?

To finish the game you have been playing for years and years and just start a new one today, right now.

To give up on that old game and boldly go where you have never been before.

It all starts with the decision.

You telling yourself that it’s game over, your not going into overtime again today, it’s done!

What are you willing to do to end the game of your life that you have been playing in order to start a new one now?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

You can do it!

You deserve it!

Make it happen now!

Stop winning at the wrong game in your life.

Choose your new game of the best life that you have always dreamed of.

And continue to ask yourself…

Am I playing the right game?

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What You See Is How You Be


Is your environment contributing to your successful life?


Look around, wherever you are.

What do You SEE?

Even more importantly, what do You FEEL?

Is your environment a reflection of your wants, desires and dream life?

Did you know that the more abundant your evironment feels, the more money you will make, and the more joy, fun, and abundance you will attract into your life.

How does that sound?

Would you like some of it for your life?

Your environment is truly a reflection of you.

What you have in the inside always comes out and is reflected by you through you and your environment to the rest of the world.

So, let me ask you again…

When you look around, what do you see and feel?

Are you happy with what it is or does it stir something up inside of you saying that this has to change?

If you don’t like where you are right now in your life, then choose to change it.

It really is that simple. Make the decision that you are not going to take it any longer and then step into the action that it will take to change it.

Most people are not willing to make such a bold declaration to themselves and then take the action needed to make a difference in their life.

They would rather sit in the crap of what they have already created then go through the pain of what could take them out of it and on towards the life they have always dreamed of.

Which will you choose?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to have what you want and desire in your life?

I mean really, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES?

Alright good.

Here are a couple of things that you can do to help you get started on that journey.

First, stop beating yourself up for what you have done or not done in the past. It’s already over. Get over it and stop kicking yourself about it.

Second, grab a piece of paper and a pen and divide the paper into 2 columns. The first call title it, what I am great at. The second column title it, the crap that I need to get rid of in my life. Now don’t go getting totally down on yourself. Make sure that for each crap thing in your life, you have at least 1 great thing. The great things are in there. I know it and so do you. Just go ahead and get them about along with your crap.

Third, sit with your crap and be comfortable with it. Make friends with it. And then tell it to hit the road because you no longer need or want it in your life. Ask this question: What would it take for me to be rid of all of my crap and allow my greatness to shine through in everything that I do? Now take whatever shows up and run with it. Run as fast as you can towards your life of your dreams. It’s been waiting for you to show up. Now is the time for you to have it.

Finally, clean up your environment. Yow deserve to work and be in a place that inspires you. Clean off that paper on your desk. Through away that stuff that you have not looked at in years. Let some natural light into your space. Buy a plant to keep you company. Yes do it!

What you see is how you will Be.

Are you ready to be who you were born to be?

Let’s get started now.

Keep your dreams alive!

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The Life Of The Living Dead


When you look around is it like watching the Living Dead?


Do you see this?

I know that I have.

Most people are walking around as if there was no life within them.


Can you relate?

I know I can… I’ve been there.

It’s like your heart has gone hard and there is not blood pumping through your body.

It’s like there is nothing going on inside, you are just going through the motions.

Zombie walking through life … trying to get to the success that you want and deserve.

Everywhere I look these days, I see it.

People are turned off, and checked out.

Why does this happen?

How do people get into this state?

How the heck can you get out of it?

We have never lived in a time that we had such access to people and information while at the same time barely being connected with the people we live with each day.

Distractions are everywhere.

Most people do not have the ability to focus for more that at least a few minutes, some it is only a few seconds.

This over stimulation leads people to a state of overwhelm and then to the place where they just have had enough of everything and check out.

Zombie’s walking through life… Dead Man Walking!

Now deep down inside of them, they still have their dreams and desires of the greatness they can be in their life.

But it has been pushed down, shoved aside, and torn down so much that they don’t know if it could ever be possible for them.

Hence, they are Zombie’s walking through life on the path to success that unfortunately for most of them, they will never achieve.

If you are feeling this way some of the time, don’t worry. There is hope for you. There is another way. You can snap out of it and change the path you are on to be for fulfilling, fun, and full of the abundance you desire for your life.

It can all change in an instant if you just make a choice and then take action on it.

Make a choice to turn off the distractions that are around you.

Make a choice to take that new action that you know will move you towards your dreams and desires you want in your life.

Make a choice to discipline yourself now so that later you can move with such amazing ease in your life it will be like magic.

Are you ready? Ready to choose another path for your life?

Pick one thing today to leave behind and at the same time pick one new thing to pick up in it’s place that will move you forward.

Share your choices below…

Keep your dreams alive!

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How do you speak to potential customers and clients?


Do you speak with confidence and power when you are asking for what you want?


Do you lack energy and passion when speaking with a new potential customer or client?

Most people are so reserved when they speak to others, that they put doubts in their mind that what they are speaking about is even possible.

Have you had that happen to you? Have you had someone try to offer their services to you and you could tell that they really were not interested in what they were selling? Or even worse, did not believe that you could deliver what you say you can?

You had this feeling inside of you that they would rather be somewhere, anywhere else, than being with you at that moment having the conversation?

Have You spoken to people in this way?

I know I have and it still comes up from time to time. It’s ok. It’s all part of the journey. It can be better than that.

So what holds back your energy and passion for speaking with so much Bold Confidence that the other person will have no doubt that what we are telling them can be and will be done?

It all comes back to that FEAR thing that keeps us save and sound, but at the same time holds us back.

This mixed without actually knowing EXACTLY How we are going to achieve the things we tell our customers and clients we can do for them.

It holds most people back and keeps them small.

Are you in that space right now?

What are you willing to do to get out of it?

Would you be willing to make another choice? Choose another action?

Are you willing to Speak UP the the most power and confidence that you could ever imagine for yourself and let people know who you are and what you can contribute to their business and life?

Let me share something with you that you might not realize…

There are people out there in the world that are looking for you. Looking for you as the one who can be the greatest contribution to who they are and what they can become in their life.

If you choose not so show up and speak up as you truly be, they will have not idea that you are the one they are looking for.

Now how selfish is that?

I know that there are no guarantees in life… and most people are afraid that they will not achieve the outcomes that they want to….

BUT there is most certainly a guarantee that if you choose to do nothing different that what you are already doing, NOTHING DIFFERENT WILL HAPPEN!!!!

So are you willing to STEP UP and GO FOR IT?

Take BOLD ACTION and tell the world what you can do for them?

Now is your time…

People are waiting for you.

Tell the world who you are and how you can be a contribution to them and watch how all the things that you have been wanting and desiring will start to show up…

You deserve it!

Do it NOW!

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