It’s All Good

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What If Everything That Happens To You In Your Life Is Good?

It's All Good

We all have things happen to us in our lives each end every day. Some seem good while others seem bad. Some make use happy while others piss us off.

What if it was possible to see everything as good?

How would that change your life?

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What are you doing good in your life that you never recognized that you were before?

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Things Left Unsettled

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Do You Leave Things Unsettled In Your Business?

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How many times have you left things unfinished? not closed off? up in the air? still hanging?

I know that most people do this a lot… And I have been one of the guilty parties right at the scene of every instance of this in my business and life in the past.

So when we leave things in this unsettled state, how does it make you feel?

Do you feel like you are low on energy? Down on your luck? Just not very motivated?

When you are constantly living in the state of unfinished and unsettled business in your life, it can be very draining of your energy.

It is like and open door or window for the energy that fuels you to rush out of it.

Think of it like and open window on a cold day with all of the heat rushes out and the room is left feeling cold and empty.

Is that how it make you feel when you leave things unsettled?

So why do we do it?

What makes us leave things unsettled and never close them off?

  1. Fear…

    We are afraid of what might happen if we confront a situation. So instead of taking care of it and closing things off, we just leave it and hope or wish that it would go away. How has that worked out for you thus far in your life? I bet it has not been very energizing of fulfilling. RIGHT?

  2. Distraction…

    We live in a world where we are constantly inundated with information and stuff in our lives. Sometimes we get so busy in our busyness that we forget about some of the things we have opened up and started that need our attention and to be finished. I am sure you can relate to this. Especially in the online universe!

So if we know realize that the energy that we want to have is leaving our body through these unsettled things that we just have left open, what can we do about them.

Here are 3 simple things that you can do to help limit your unsettled business:

  1. Taken an Inventory…

    Unplug yourself from what is distracting you in your life and reflect and write down on the things that you need to take care of. Then take action and get them done.

  2. Have a Plan…

    You have most likely heard the saying… Failing to Plan is a Plan to Fail. Well if you don’t have a plan how can you know if you are getting better at what you are doing? How do you know what you really need to be doing in the first place? Take your dreams and vision and write out a plan for what you will do today to take you one step closer to it. Include in the plan on unsettled thing that you need to take care of today.

  3. Choose…

    Choice is the greatest gift that we have been given in this wonderful world and journey we are on. Decide today that you will choose not to leave things unsettled in the future. You will always finish what you started from now on. You can do it.

This are things that have helped me to take care of the unsettled stuff in my business in life…

What are the unsettled things in your life and business that are holding you back from the life of your dreams and desires?

Go ahead and close them off today.

Make a choice to shut the door on them for good and take back your power and energy to move your forward on your journey.

You know you can do it.

Just Frickin’ Getter DONE NOW!

You’ll be glad you did.

Keep your dreams alive!


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Choosing Possibilities for Success

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What are you choosing for yourself today?

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For most people, when things show up in their life that could help them achieve their dreams and desires, they don’t always see them for what they really are.

What I’m speaking about here is the difference between Possibility and Loss OR Opportunity and Cost.

For most people in the world, when a possibility shows up in their life to move them forward, they quickly go to asking the questions:

“What will I have to give up to have this?”

or

“What will this cost me?”

But if you truly what to have the success that you have always dreamed of in your life, you might want to re-consider the perspective in which you are looking at the possibilities that are showing up in your life.

You see, all Super Successful People see the greatness in the possibilities of things that show up right in front of them rather then the challenges and cost of the things around them. And they are willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen in their lives. To allow for the greatness of what they see to go from their mind into reality.

On the other hand, those who choose not to see this in the things that show up in their lives, are really struggling with giving up and loosing what they already have, and what makes them feel good at this moment in time. (Even though the things that the perceive are making them feel good are the things that are killing them and holding them back stuck in what they already have in life).

So rather than sit in the crap of what you are already experiencing, the next time something shows up that you know inside of you will help you get to the next step on your journey, ask this questions of yourself:

“What will I gain from this?”

“How will this make my life better?”

“What contribution can this be to my life?”

Doesn’t that just feel better when you ask those questions to yourself rather then the others we mentioned earlier?

Of course they do. They invite a positive possibility energy into your that makes you feel good!

And who doesn’t want to feel good… RIGHT? ๐Ÿ™‚

So the next time you see a possibility for transformation in your life showing up right in front of you, look for what it will add into your life and how it will help you move towards your dreams and desires. Then use this as the fuel to move yourself into action and do whatever it takes to have it all in your life.

Choose the Possibilities for Success in your life today!

You deserve it!

Keep your dreams alive!


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Asking For Permission

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Do you ask for permission for everything you do in your business and life?

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Most people spend their life asking for permission to do things and at the same time, worrying about whether they are doing what is right.

I can bet that these people are not really living the life that they want and desire.

So what is holding them back?

Why do most people go through life trying to do the right thing all the time.

Why are most people always feeling they need permission to do things?

If you have ever been a parent to a child or been a child yourself ๐Ÿ™‚ , then you know that from a very young ask, you were taught that you had to ask for permission if you wanted something or wanted to do something. As a parent, you thought this was what you needed to do to raise your kid. Heck, that’s what your parents did and you turned out alright, so why not do just the same thing as a parent yourself, right? As a kid, you didn’t know any better and learned that this asking for permission stuff usually got what you wanted, when done the right way of course ๐Ÿ™‚

The permission game continues when we go to school. We have to ask for permission for everything from speaking to going to the washroom. How much fun is that? How do you think that had an effect on what you believe you have to do to get something that you want?

This continued until you left school and were out on your own.

You thought, great, I’m free now. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. No more asking for permission.

That lasted long enough for you to get a job, have a relationship, and start your family. The permission thing started right back up for you again.

I have to tell you, it is one of the major things that is keeping you back in life from moving boldly ahead towards your desires and dreams.

Asking for permission!

If you are stuck in the asking for permission spiral in your life, always trying to do the right thing, then maybe it’s time for you to adopt a new philosophy and do something else.

Here is what I learned while in Graduate School back in the late 1990s.

Instead of asking for permission for everything you want…

Go and do what you want and then ask for forgiveness later!

That it’s it.

Ask For Forgiveness.

This philosophy and shift in my thinking allowed me to boldly step forward asking for forgiveness along the way and create a multi-million dollar technology business.

So, what are the things that are holding you back that you are waiting for permission to do?

What is it going to take for you to step forward and do it, and ask for forgiveness later?

Most of the time, the asking for forgiveness never even has to be done.

So try it out.

Take that step, that action that will move you closer to the life of your dreams and desires.

And ask for forgiveness later if you have to.

To your massive success!


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Failure Is The Only Option

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Could Failure NOT Being An Option Be Keeping You From Your Business Success??

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Most people spend their life in Fear Of Failing!

Can you relate?

Do you know some of these people?

Have you worked in this way before?

I know that I have, and let me tell you…

It didn’t really get me any where except going around in circles being stuck with where I was.

How does it get any better than that?

You see, most of us are brought up to do what we are told, follow the rules, don’t do anything wrong and FAILURE IS NOT A OPTION!

Really, how the heck can we go through life and live out our dreams if that is the way we have to be.

When you look around and study the great leader, inventors, and creators of this time and the past, you will find that they all did the opposite of what they were told, what people said they should do, and the failed a lot!

In fact, I have come to believe that on the path to success and the life of your dreams…

Failure is the ONLY OPTION!

How has failure played a role in your life and business?

Are you afraid of it?

Does it worry you?

Does it keep you up at night?

Well let me tell you, it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to feel like failure is something that you did wrong.

One of the greatest inventors in history, Thomas Edison, was asked a question about failure at one point in his career.

They asked him about the 10,000+ times that he failed in his journey to invent the light bulb.

To which he replied, I just learned 10,000 ways how not to create one.

It is all a matter of perspective when it comes to failure.

And also the choice that you make when you stuff shows up around things that don’t go just as planned.

On the journey towards the life of your dreams, you will come across many times where things don’t work out the way you wanted and there will be people there to let you know that that is the reason why you should stop continuing to pursue your vision of the future.

When those things come up, I suggest the following:

1. Take a deep breath and remind yourself of what your vision and dream life is. Feel what it will be like once you are there, and let that feeling be the driving force behind you continuing to move forward.

2. Make the choice to keep moving forward. Remember your decision that you made to start on this journey in the first place. Let that fuel you to continue on the journey.

3. Ask powerful questions like, What’s right about this situation that I am not seeing here? Or What else is possible?

4. Take massive action to move you forward and push past the so called failure that is right in front of you.

Failure is only what you choose for it to be. If it wasn’t they everyone would see the same failures as everyone else.

So the next time something doesn’t go exactly as planned and people around you are dragging your down, or maybe even that voice in your head starts barking at you… Remember your dreams and vision and choose to continue on the journey.

You’ll be glad that you did.

To your massive success!


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How do you speak to potential customers and clients?

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Do you speak with confidence and power when you are asking for what you want?

OR

Do you lack energy and passion when speaking with a new potential customer or client?

Most people are so reserved when they speak to others, that they put doubts in their mind that what they are speaking about is even possible.

Have you had that happen to you? Have you had someone try to offer their services to you and you could tell that they really were not interested in what they were selling? Or even worse, did not believe that you could deliver what you say you can?

You had this feeling inside of you that they would rather be somewhere, anywhere else, than being with you at that moment having the conversation?

Have You spoken to people in this way?

I know I have and it still comes up from time to time. It’s ok. It’s all part of the journey. It can be better than that.

So what holds back your energy and passion for speaking with so much Bold Confidence that the other person will have no doubt that what we are telling them can be and will be done?

It all comes back to that FEAR thing that keeps us save and sound, but at the same time holds us back.

This mixed without actually knowing EXACTLY How we are going to achieve the things we tell our customers and clients we can do for them.

It holds most people back and keeps them small.

Are you in that space right now?

What are you willing to do to get out of it?

Would you be willing to make another choice? Choose another action?

Are you willing to Speak UP the the most power and confidence that you could ever imagine for yourself and let people know who you are and what you can contribute to their business and life?

Let me share something with you that you might not realize…

There are people out there in the world that are looking for you. Looking for you as the one who can be the greatest contribution to who they are and what they can become in their life.

If you choose not so show up and speak up as you truly be, they will have not idea that you are the one they are looking for.

Now how selfish is that?

I know that there are no guarantees in life… and most people are afraid that they will not achieve the outcomes that they want to….

BUT there is most certainly a guarantee that if you choose to do nothing different that what you are already doing, NOTHING DIFFERENT WILL HAPPEN!!!!

So are you willing to STEP UP and GO FOR IT?

Take BOLD ACTION and tell the world what you can do for them?

Now is your time…

People are waiting for you.

Tell the world who you are and how you can be a contribution to them and watch how all the things that you have been wanting and desiring will start to show up…

You deserve it!

Do it NOW!

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Do you have to get it right before you get it going?

How many times in your business have you waited until you knew exactly how to do something before you did it?

If you are like most people, then your answer is A LOT!

We live in a society where people demand perfection.

Do you believe that?

If not, just look at our school system, corporate business structure, and over all culture.

It is built into every aspect of the core foundation of the systems that run things in this world. I have found that most people are plugged into that I refer to as The Matrix.

Is it becoming clearer to you now?

In our schools, we are driven to get the highest marks in the class.

Our corporations are driven at every level to be perfect from shareholders to entry level positions where people are striving to climb the ladder to the top.

In our culture, everything from advertising, media, and entertainment bombards us with the message that we need to be perfect.

Is this really possible?

When you look at the great things that have been accomplished in the world, the greatest inventions, and most innovative things created, they were all brought to be through much trial and error.

This doesn’t sound like perfection to me.

In fact, it sounds like a lot of… can I say it… FAILURE!

So do you really believe that you need to get it right when in fact that the path that has lead to the greatest things being created in this world are full of failures?

Sounds like the most important thing for you to do in your business is just get doing it.

Now don’t get me wrong, you need to have a plans, strategies, and vision of where you are going.

But what you don’t need is all of the details of how you are going to get there.

Just having the first step is enough to take it.

One of my mentors always says…

“You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it going!”

So what are you going to get going today in your business that you have been holding back until you get it right?

Take the step.

You and your business will thank you as you move towards your vision and dreams.

Share your thoughts below.

To your massive success!

Blessings,

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Is Fear Of Failure Overrated?

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Fear Of Failure Is Overrated!

You have heard it before…

“Failure is not an option”

or my favourite one…

“I have a fear of failure”

To me that sounds like an excuse.

Do we really have a fear of failure or is it just the result of something else that is keeping us stuck.

Sometimes what we think are the roots of a particular issue are in fact the fruits.

Make sense?

We live in a world that is driven by success.

A world that likes to take failure and sweep it under the carpet and make like it never happened.

When I was building my technology business, this was a common issue among many people in the organization. They never wanted to focus on anything that looked like a failure. They missed out on so many great things that they could learn and help them to grow even better. When you think about it, you don’t really learn much from your successes, but your failures have so much to offer. Don’t sweep them under the rug in your business and life.

Seth Godin in his book Tribes discusses the concept “Fear Of Failure Is Overrated”

He shares…

“Fear of failure is actually overrated as an excuse. Why? Because if you work for someone, then, more often than not, the actual cost of failure is absorbed by the organization, not by you. If your product launch fails, they’re not going to fire you. The company will make a bit less money and will move on.

What people are afraid of isn’t failure. It’s blame. Criticism. We choose not to be remarkable because we’re worried about criticism.

Fear of criticism is a powerful deterrent because the criticism doesn’t actually have to occur for the fear to set in. Watch a few people get criticized for being innovative, and it’s pretty easy to convince yourself that the very same thing will happen to you if you’re not careful.”

So, fear of failure isn’t really fear of failure at all…

It’s fear of being criticized by others.

In the home based business and network marketing arena it is referred to as fear of rejection.

It is what hold so many people back from not even getting started.

What can you do about this?

There are two things that I have come to know as valuable that helped me get over this…

1. Have a strong WHY for what you are doing. One that can make you cry and you can refer to when times are challenging, and they will be in your business, to help keep you moving forward.

2. Just DO IT! Nike had it right when they shared this in their slogan. Just get out their and face your fears and do what you know you need to do to be successful in your business and life.

What is holding you back?

Are you ready to just put it aside and start doing what you need to do today right now?

Share your thoughts below.

To your massive success!

Blessings,


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Fear Of Failure Is Overrated!

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The GREAT Edward here,

Does Fear of Failure stop you from even getting started?

For most people the answer to that is a BIG YES!

Well what if Fear of Failure wasn’t even the issue and that it is really something else that is holding you back?

What would that do to your reality?

Check out this reading from Tribes by Seth Godin and find out what the real issue is that most people have…

So what are you going to choose today?

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