100% Responsibility

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Are You Willing To Show Up As The Best Version Of Yourself Today?

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Of course you are… RIGHT?

Most people in the world have the intention of showing up BIG in everything that they do, but that doesn’t always happen as they progress through the activities of their day.

You see… the moment you believe that someone else is responsible for your results, is the moment that you completely give up your personal power and your ability to show up BIG in the world.

It is so easy for most people to want to blame, judge, or criticize other people for what is happening in their life. And if their life is not going as they planed, hoped, or dreamed… then the blaming goes to a whole other level.

Have you notice this happening in your life?

What have you done to work through and overcome this type of thinking?

The best thing that you can do for yourself when this kind of thinking shows up is to STOP… right where you are for a second, and recognize that this is what is happening.

Awareness is the first step in being able to change something in your life. In fact, how can anyone change something that they are not aware of in the first place?

Let me tell you a secret that all successful people know and do…

1. They alone are 100% responsible for their life.
2. They take 100% responsibility for EVERYTHING that shows up in their life.

How powerful is that?

Now I know what you are probably thinking…

Can someone really take 100% responsibility for their life all the time?

Well, it’s not easy… but what is easy is for us to blame other for the stuff that shows up and that’s what’s keeps up held back from the life we desire and dream of.

So isn’t it worth it to step up and take the road less traveled even if it maybe a bit hard to do?

YES! And you will be glad every time you do.

It can be easy to get stuck in the “Blame Loop”. That cycle that keeps you going around and around in circles living the same life you have always lived.

Being stuck in that loop will suck so much energy out of you that you will not have any left to show up BIG in the world.

But the worst thing about being in this state of not taking 100% Responsibility for your life is…. you will start to not TRUST People.

When that happens, people will also start to not trust you either.

You definitely don’t want any of that for your life… RIGHT?

So how do you break out of this “Blame Loop” and get back on track with the life and business you have always dreamed of?

Well, you can’t change what other people do to you, you can only choose to change how your react to these situations.

As you practice taking responsibility for yourself, you get to the point where you are grateful for everything that shows up in your life as it will allow you to always show up BIG and continue to Grow each and every day.

Taking responsibility for your life give you the power and energy you need to act quickly, make decisions, and take action towards your desires and dreams.

Giving it up to others takes your power and energy away.

What will you choose?

Decide now to show up BIG in everything you do in your life and take 100% Responsibility for all of it!

Watch how all your dreams and desires you have every had for your life and business will start to show up in ways you never could have imagined before.

Go Ahead.

Start NOW!

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Lean Into Your Future

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When Faced With Obstacles And Challenges… What Do You Do?

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Do you back away? …

Curl up into a ball?…

Hide under your desk?…

OR

Do you lean into it!

All people who have achieved great success in their lives have done so by standing up to their fears, kicking the to the side, and taking massive action in line with their dreams and desires.

When fear shows up in your life… What do you choose?

Be courageous, make a choice, choose for your future self and all your dreams and desires will come true.

Push through your fears by leaning into your future now.

I know there are times when things feel so tough that you just don’t want to go on. I’ve been that, done that, and wrote the books about it along with the made for TV movies.

I get it. I know what it means to be straggled by fear in your business and life.

But let me share with you one thing…

When you finally decide to face what you fear and put it aside… it is so much easier and yes, the grass is greener and smells way better on the other side.

What the heck is this thing called fear anyway?

It is a thought that comes from an experience you have had in your life that triggers a feeling that give rise to an emotion that makes you feel afraid.

Right, it’s that stuff that makes you feel bad when you play it over and over again in your head. It’s the same old same old stories that you tell yourself. Check out this post if you want to discover how you can start telling a different story in your life.

Fear always starts within your mind based on how you understand a specific situation.

So if that is the case, then in order to get rid of our fears, we can just choose to think a different way about things and situations in our lives.

How awesome is that?

Yep, it’s that simple.

And when we are pushing back against something, we don’t need to ram our head into it full force.

We can just lean into it.

Take it with ease and joy as you move towards your dreams and desires for your life and business.

Go ahead…

Make a choice.

Move forward taking massive action!

and Lean into your future TODAY!

Kick fear to the side.

Start living for you today!

You’ll be glad you did.

Keep your dreams alive!

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Unlearn Your Way To Success

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What If Everything You Know Is What Has Been Holding You Back From The Success You Deserve?

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What do you think keeps you stuck where you are on your life journey?

Is it the stuff that you don’t yet know?

The things that you haven’t learned yet?

So many people get stuck on the things that they don’t know how to do and allow that to keep them from doing the things that they already know how to do.

A mentor of mine would always remind me…

“If you would only do what you already know what to do, things would be better.”

In fact, if there are things that you don’t know that you don’t know how to do, how can you do them anyway since you don’t know.

This is true about stuff that we are not skilled at and it holds people back big time in both their business and their life.

It has certainly happened to me from time to time on this glorious journey.

Has it happened to you?

Well what if you are doing all the things that you know how to do and things are just not going the way that you expect them to?

What if you are not getting the results that you desire to have in your business and life?

What if there is another side to this thing about learning and doing.

There always is another side. Everything has at least 2 sides to it.

You can’t have one without the other.

So with that said…

What if the things that are keeping you stuck are not about learning something that you don’t know how to do at all?

What if it what is holding you back is what you already know and all you have to do is unlearn it and you will instantly breakthrough?

Now I know what you must be thinking… This is obvious. We have to get rid of old habits that no longer serve us.

I get it. But most people are focused on the next thing that will take them somewhere rather than looking at where they have been that has got them to the point they are at right now.

Here are 3 things that most people need to unlearn in order to unlock their success:

  1. Addiction to the Outcome…

    Most people are so stuck on the outcome that they desire to have that it totally blocks their awareness of possibilities that exist for them to achieve all that they desire in their life. This focus on outcomes is based on the goal setting paradigm that has flooded the business and personal growth space. What if instead of focusing on the outcomes that you allow yourself to keep your vision in tack, through away your goals, and create some targets that you can shoot at and if you miss, you simply choose new ones or shoot at it again. Drop your need to achieve the outcome in the way that you envision it to be and watch how you can move forward with more ease.

  2. Knowing all the Steps…

    All people who are stuck in their lives are focused on knowing every detail of what it is going to take to make it happen. The step by step plan that will get them there. What if this was holding them back? What if it was keeping you from even getting started in the first place. When you can see all of the steps in your mind of what it will take to get to a certain outcome, sometimes it tricks your mind into believing that it has already happened and you end up doing nothing, where in reality nothing has even been started. Through away your desire to know all the steps and just take the first one and the rest of the path will appear. You can choose at each step along the way which one to take.

  3. Success of Others…

    Seeing others having success at the same thing that we have in mind to do and be holds a lot of people back. In business it is all about the competition. I talked about what the real competition should be in your business in this post here. Rather than having it make you stuck, use the success of others to help you move forward by knowing it can be done. Don’t let others success and competition hold you back.

On the journey towards the life of your dreams and desires, there are both learning and unlearning that will lead to your success.

What will you choose to unlearn in your life today?

Take action to breakthrough now.

You’ll be glad you did.

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Things Left Unsettled

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Do You Leave Things Unsettled In Your Business?

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How many times have you left things unfinished? not closed off? up in the air? still hanging?

I know that most people do this a lot… And I have been one of the guilty parties right at the scene of every instance of this in my business and life in the past.

So when we leave things in this unsettled state, how does it make you feel?

Do you feel like you are low on energy? Down on your luck? Just not very motivated?

When you are constantly living in the state of unfinished and unsettled business in your life, it can be very draining of your energy.

It is like and open door or window for the energy that fuels you to rush out of it.

Think of it like and open window on a cold day with all of the heat rushes out and the room is left feeling cold and empty.

Is that how it make you feel when you leave things unsettled?

So why do we do it?

What makes us leave things unsettled and never close them off?

  1. Fear…

    We are afraid of what might happen if we confront a situation. So instead of taking care of it and closing things off, we just leave it and hope or wish that it would go away. How has that worked out for you thus far in your life? I bet it has not been very energizing of fulfilling. RIGHT?

  2. Distraction…

    We live in a world where we are constantly inundated with information and stuff in our lives. Sometimes we get so busy in our busyness that we forget about some of the things we have opened up and started that need our attention and to be finished. I am sure you can relate to this. Especially in the online universe!

So if we know realize that the energy that we want to have is leaving our body through these unsettled things that we just have left open, what can we do about them.

Here are 3 simple things that you can do to help limit your unsettled business:

  1. Taken an Inventory…

    Unplug yourself from what is distracting you in your life and reflect and write down on the things that you need to take care of. Then take action and get them done.

  2. Have a Plan…

    You have most likely heard the saying… Failing to Plan is a Plan to Fail. Well if you don’t have a plan how can you know if you are getting better at what you are doing? How do you know what you really need to be doing in the first place? Take your dreams and vision and write out a plan for what you will do today to take you one step closer to it. Include in the plan on unsettled thing that you need to take care of today.

  3. Choose…

    Choice is the greatest gift that we have been given in this wonderful world and journey we are on. Decide today that you will choose not to leave things unsettled in the future. You will always finish what you started from now on. You can do it.

This are things that have helped me to take care of the unsettled stuff in my business in life…

What are the unsettled things in your life and business that are holding you back from the life of your dreams and desires?

Go ahead and close them off today.

Make a choice to shut the door on them for good and take back your power and energy to move your forward on your journey.

You know you can do it.

Just Frickin’ Getter DONE NOW!

You’ll be glad you did.

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Delusion by Comparison

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Are you feeling like you are not having the success that you deserve in your life and business?

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Do you look around and see other people succeeding where you are not?

Does that makes you feel like crap?

Does it make you question whether you can ever have success in what you really want to do in your life?

I have met so many people to get stuck in the Delusion by Comparison trap that keeps them stuck in their business and life.

They are constantly in a state of looking around at what other people are doing and allowing what they see to make them feel lousy about what they are, or are not, doing.

From their point of view, these people are doing much better, are further ahead, and these people have come to believe that there is no way they could catch up.

With the information available on the Internet and right in your face while you browse Facebook, these beliefs and comparisons are killing people’s hopes for their dream life before they even can get started.

Can you relate?

At one time or another, everyone has probably been in that state. Unless, you have lived in silence as a monk on top of a mountain with no interaction with people or connection to the Internet for the past 40 years of your life…. But not many of us are doing that.buddhist-monk-on-mountain

So for the rest of us who have not turned to the monk-hood, let’s look at what is going on for a person in this state.

The first thing to consider it that the things that these people are thinking about themselves when they compare to others, are just that… Thoughts!

And the best thing about Thoughts are, they are not real. They are just things that we are thinking in our head.

It is only when you choose to Believe in the thoughts in your head as True, that these thoughts actually become true for you.

Believe it or not… your thoughts can be changed through what you choose to believe.

So the next time you get into the Delusion by Comparison of your life to another persons, stop and think for a minute. Ask yourself this question:

“Is this thought that I am thinking true for me?”

I’ll let you in on a little secret… 99% of those kinds of thoughts are totally false and have not place in your mind let alone in your believes.

Challenge your thoughts when you get into this state on your journey towards your dream life.

Separate your thoughts from your truth.

Align your focus and actions along the path of beliefs that will take you there.

Stop beating yourself up with judgement’s that you have based on what others around you are doing. Just STOP IT NOW!

You are progressing at the pace that is right for you and your current beliefs.

Want to change that pace, change your beliefs.

Show up BIG EVERY DAY and continue on your journey.

You will be triggered emotionally from time to time as you observe what others are doing around you. Take it in, let it out, and continue on your path.

As one of my mentors taught me …

There is no right way, There is no wrong way, There is only your way!

Be You and make the change in the world that you were born to give.

Keep your dreams alive!

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Choosing Possibilities for Success

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What are you choosing for yourself today?

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For most people, when things show up in their life that could help them achieve their dreams and desires, they don’t always see them for what they really are.

What I’m speaking about here is the difference between Possibility and Loss OR Opportunity and Cost.

For most people in the world, when a possibility shows up in their life to move them forward, they quickly go to asking the questions:

“What will I have to give up to have this?”

or

“What will this cost me?”

But if you truly what to have the success that you have always dreamed of in your life, you might want to re-consider the perspective in which you are looking at the possibilities that are showing up in your life.

You see, all Super Successful People see the greatness in the possibilities of things that show up right in front of them rather then the challenges and cost of the things around them. And they are willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen in their lives. To allow for the greatness of what they see to go from their mind into reality.

On the other hand, those who choose not to see this in the things that show up in their lives, are really struggling with giving up and loosing what they already have, and what makes them feel good at this moment in time. (Even though the things that the perceive are making them feel good are the things that are killing them and holding them back stuck in what they already have in life).

So rather than sit in the crap of what you are already experiencing, the next time something shows up that you know inside of you will help you get to the next step on your journey, ask this questions of yourself:

“What will I gain from this?”

“How will this make my life better?”

“What contribution can this be to my life?”

Doesn’t that just feel better when you ask those questions to yourself rather then the others we mentioned earlier?

Of course they do. They invite a positive possibility energy into your that makes you feel good!

And who doesn’t want to feel good… RIGHT? 🙂

So the next time you see a possibility for transformation in your life showing up right in front of you, look for what it will add into your life and how it will help you move towards your dreams and desires. Then use this as the fuel to move yourself into action and do whatever it takes to have it all in your life.

Choose the Possibilities for Success in your life today!

You deserve it!

Keep your dreams alive!

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Busting Through Overwhelm

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Do You Find Yourself In A Constant State Of Overwhelm?

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Almost every person on this great earth at this time is sensing some kind of overwhelming feeling in their live about to much to get done and no time to do it.

Can you relate?

How has that been treating you? Helping you along on your journey towards your dreams and desires in your business and life?

What if… “It didn’t need to be that way?”

What if… “Overwhelm was not even about getting things done or not?”

What if… “It was more about how you be, than what you do?”

Busting through your overwhelm can be done with just a few simple things that you can fit right into your day.

Here are 5 simple tips for busting the overwhelm in your life today:

  1. Breath… Most people these days are in a state of constant anxiety and fear. This is one of the factors that can lead you to a state of overwhelm. The fact that this happens is due to our lack of truly breathing. Yes, we do breath. We have to to survive… but these quick short breaths that we take do not do well for us in a state of overwhelm. Take time out of your day for even just a few minutes to breath deeply and feed your body and brain the oxygen that it is craving for.
  2. Talk… We live in a time where we have never been so connected to people through technology but at the same time, never been so disconnected from each other. When you get into this state of overwhelm sometimes you just need to talk with someone about it. Now don’t use this time to dump on people about your woe is me story like I explained in this post on Telling A New Story, go to them with some concrete things that you are struggling with and feeling and be open to the solutions they may tell you. Ideally this should be a mentor or coach that you speak with.
  3. Dump… If you are like most people these days, you have a lot of stuff floating around in your head. This can be a major factor in being in overwhelm. The next time you feel your head filling up with information and ideas, grab a note book and pen and write them down. Do a brain dump of your ideas and then let your head rest and be relieved of having to constantly think about them. This really helps to bust through overwhelm when you do it on a consistent basis.
  4. Play… When was the last time you just put all of the junk and stuff that we get mixed up in our adult lives aside and just played. Went to the park, grabbed a board game, played basketball in the driveway? Try it, it works! Most people have gotten so serious these days that they have forgotten how to play. Want to really kick this up a notch. Find yourself a young kid to play with. Feed of their imagination and just let it flow. Go with it. Busting through overwhelm will be yours!
  5. Move… How long do you think the average person spends sitting down in a day? Well according to this research in Briton, more than 14 hours!!! Can you believe it?

    At this point, consider choosing vape juice for overall enjoyment of use.

    No wonder so many people are feeling overwhelmed, they are just sitting their life away. Take some time, get up and move your body, dance, jump, get the energy flowing. If you have a job that requires you to sit for long hours take breaks and move yourself around. This is an amazing way to bust through your overwhelm.

There you have it, the Breath, Talk, Dump, Play, and Move combination that will leave your overwhelm in the dust and you moving forward on the journey towards the life of your dreams.

What strategies have you used to bust through overwhelm in your life?

Share them below…

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Telling A New Story

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How Do You Tell Your Story?

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We all have stories in our life about the journeys that we have been on in the past.

Have you ever thought about how you tell those stories to other people?

The impact that may have on their journey?

The stories in our lives come in many different shapes, types and sizes.

There are stories of Success, Heartbreak, Tragedy, Glory, and more…

all around the events that have happened in our past.

So I was talking with a friend a while back who shared a story with me about a tragic event that happened in their life.

It was one of those types of stories where while you are listening to it and at the end of it you are feeling sad for your friend.

Can you relate? It’s one of those stories that is filled with drama and trauma.

Anyway, after listening to this story from my friend. I was feeling really down and was like wow, that was some really terrible stuff that happened to you.

It got me to thinking, if this is how I feel about the story my friend is telling me, I wonder how other people are feeling after they hear it.

Even more curious was I about what my friend must be feeling reliving this story of their past over and over again.

There must be something better…

So I asked my friend… What if you stopped telling that version of your story and made a choice to tell something new?

What if inside your story was a gift that you could share with other people that would inspire them, lift them up, and encourage some of them that maybe listening to it that went through the same circumstances that they have hope for the future. They can overcome it.

Every story has two sides.

The story we tell is just the choice that we make.

For today, take a look at one of your stories that you’ve been telling other people about your tragedies that make people feel sorry for you…

and decide to change it and tell a new story of yourself to the world.

Bring out the gift that is inside that tragedy and hard times and tell a new story today.

You’ll be glad you did.

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The Fallacy Of Patience

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Is Patience Interrupting your Success?

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How many times have you heard someone tell you…

“Just be patient.”

“Good things come to those who wait.”

What if those statements were just lies that feed into your ego designed to keep you stuck right where you are in your business and life?

Most people sit around waiting for life to happen to them and they tell themselves that its ok to do this because they are just being patient.

Why do people do this?

Don’t they realize that this could be the death of their business and what is keeping them stuck right where they are at.

Patience can hold you back from achieving your dreams and desires.

Now don’t get me wrong here… there are times when you certainly need to be patient, but that is not the point here.

The fact is that the universe doesn’t work that way. When you ask for something and truly believe it for yourself it is given to you instantly. The only thing that may take time is the time it takes for the universe to align itself to make it appear in your life.

“Ask and it will be given to you.”

“Everything you have ever desired is already inside you.”

I know, you think that it is things shouldn’t be that simple.

Well why does it need to be complicated?

If it’s so simple, why don’t very many people live in the joy and abundance of who they truly be in their business and life?

Here’s the secret tip that most people miss out on that is hidden within the space of time it takes to realize your every dream.

That is Desire, Belief, and Conviction.

Desire… is what you need to keep yourself motivated. To make things manefest faster in your life, increase your desire. Napolean Hill says that you need to have a Burning Desire in order to achieve all that you were born to be.

Belief… is what you need to keep yourself on track. There are many roads that can take you to where you want to go. Your belief will allow you to know if the road you are travelling is the one that will take you there. When the possibility of choosing a particular path or lane in your journey comes up, use your belief to measure whether to move down it or not.

Conviction… is that you will do what ever it takes to make your dreams, desires, and vision for your business and life come to be. I mean Do WHATEVER IT TAKES! Nothing will stop you from achieving what you have in your head to bring it into reality. Success is virtually guaranteed!

Desire, Belief, and Conviction…

The secret to overcoming your patience that is keeping you stuck in a rut and not moving forward towards your dreams.

So the next time some tells you to be patient, ask yourself…

“Is patience going to interrupt my success?”

Then choose the path, take action and move forward.

Your dreams are waiting for you.

Which will you choose?

Keep your dreams alive!

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The Art Of Promotion

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Do You Tell People About What You Do?

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How many people have you met that struggle with telling you about what they do and what they have to offer?

Most people fail in their business because they don’t tell anyone about what they have for sale and why other people should purchase it from them.

It maybe because they think it makes them a pushy sales person or something like that…

Well how are you ever going to have success in your business if you never tell anyone about what you offer and promote what you do to people who are looking for it?

Everyone has something of value to offer to the world…

Products, Knowledge, Services, Ideas… just to name a few.

And you have a desire within yourself to receive compensation for yourself by offering these gifts to people to allow them to purchase them from you.

This is all about making money doing what you love to do.

It is possible to live your passion, dreams, and have an abundance of everything in your life.

Do you believe?

It’s not that hard to achieve and is actually pretty simple.

Here is the secret…

Become a Self Promoter by mastering the art of promotion and promote what you do to the people who are looking for it.

There has never been a time like there is now in history where it is so easy to promote what you have to a lot of people. So many ways for you to get your message out about what you are doing and how it can help others achieve their dreams, desires, and goals for their business and life too!

I know what you might be thinking….

  1. It’s not that simple to do
  2. I don’t know what I need to do
  3. I am so overwhelmed with information, where to I start

Let me tell you something about these thoughts and statements…

The people who have them, are making it absolutely harder than it needs to be.

Here’s what you need to do in sharing and promoting what you have to offer to others:

  1. Forget about what you think the value of your products and services are, and get into the mind of your customers and what do they think and are looking for.
  2. Create value by offering content that helps and educates people on what they are looking for.
  3. Share how you can help them even further with what they are looking for through the products and services that you have to offer.

So there you have it.

3 Simple steps to the art of promotion of what you have for your products and services to get the word out, make some money, and help people out along the way.

What are you doing in your business to move it forward through the art of promotion?

Share your ideas below…

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