The Fallacy Of Patience

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Is Patience Interrupting your Success?

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How many times have you heard someone tell you…

“Just be patient.”

“Good things come to those who wait.”

What if those statements were just lies that feed into your ego designed to keep you stuck right where you are in your business and life?

Most people sit around waiting for life to happen to them and they tell themselves that its ok to do this because they are just being patient.

Why do people do this?

Don’t they realize that this could be the death of their business and what is keeping them stuck right where they are at.

Patience can hold you back from achieving your dreams and desires.

Now don’t get me wrong here… there are times when you certainly need to be patient, but that is not the point here.

The fact is that the universe doesn’t work that way. When you ask for something and truly believe it for yourself it is given to you instantly. The only thing that may take time is the time it takes for the universe to align itself to make it appear in your life.

“Ask and it will be given to you.”

“Everything you have ever desired is already inside you.”

I know, you think that it is things shouldn’t be that simple.

Well why does it need to be complicated?

If it’s so simple, why don’t very many people live in the joy and abundance of who they truly be in their business and life?

Here’s the secret tip that most people miss out on that is hidden within the space of time it takes to realize your every dream.

That is Desire, Belief, and Conviction.

Desire… is what you need to keep yourself motivated. To make things manefest faster in your life, increase your desire. Napolean Hill says that you need to have a Burning Desire in order to achieve all that you were born to be.

Belief… is what you need to keep yourself on track. There are many roads that can take you to where you want to go. Your belief will allow you to know if the road you are travelling is the one that will take you there. When the possibility of choosing a particular path or lane in your journey comes up, use your belief to measure whether to move down it or not.

Conviction… is that you will do what ever it takes to make your dreams, desires, and vision for your business and life come to be. I mean Do WHATEVER IT TAKES! Nothing will stop you from achieving what you have in your head to bring it into reality. Success is virtually guaranteed!

Desire, Belief, and Conviction…

The secret to overcoming your patience that is keeping you stuck in a rut and not moving forward towards your dreams.

So the next time some tells you to be patient, ask yourself…

“Is patience going to interrupt my success?”

Then choose the path, take action and move forward.

Your dreams are waiting for you.

Which will you choose?

Keep your dreams alive!

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Your Mess Is Your Mission

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Do You Feel Like You’re A Mess In Your Business And Life?

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Most people at one point in their journey on this planet has a sense that everything in their life is a mess.

Can you relate? Those times when things just didn’t go as you planned. You felt totally out of control. Nothing seem to end up the way you wanted, desired, or envisioned it for yourself.

Well you are not alone. Everyone has some type of mess in their life. Whether it is big or small, we all know what it is like to have some kind of mess in our life.

The areas of your life where messes usually show up are…

  1. Relationships
  2. Health
  3. Money

What if the stuff that is messed up in these areas of your life could be just the thing you need to support the mission that you are on during this journey on earth.

Now, I don’t believe that we experience anything in our life that is not there to be used to enable us to move forward on our mission.

There are no coincidences. There are no mistakes. Just things that happen.

And in fact, they are all based on the choices you made anyway!

So here is what you can do with the messes in your life.

After you have gone through them, you know have the opportunity to be able to help others that have not yet experienced it or are going through it to have less of a mess along their journey.

I don’t suggest that you share your mess with a lot of people while you are going through it. Just share it with people who can take it and who you feel can help you along the way.

But when you are on the other side of your mess, now is the time to step up and lead others through their messes that are just like yours.

How awesome can that be?

What kind of contribution can you be to others around you if you share how you overcame and when through your messes?

So if you are struggling in your business right now, and wondering how you could improve the value of what you have available to people to find you and know that you can help them?

You can do it in 3 Simple Steps…

  1. Grab a pen and paper and write down all of the messes that you have gone through in each of the areas above for your business and life.
  2. Pick one of them that you know would be the most value to others to help them out in their business and life.
  3. Package up your messes that you have already gone through.

And once you are done, the put it out there.

Tell the world about what you have so they know what you can offer them.

Your messes are over.

There may be more to come.

It’s your time now to get your past messes package and out there for the world to see.

What are you waiting for?

Someone is out there waiting for you.

It’s your time to show up now.

Just Frickin’ Getter DONE!

Keep your dreams alive!

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Who You Be Is What You Do

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Does It Always Seem Like You Are Struggling To Get What You Want?

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Are you working so hard at achieving your dreams and desires, but they just don’t seem to show up?

You’re not alone. Most people struggle with this exact same thing.

It keeps you stuck in the crap of where you currently are in your life.

How much fun is that?

Well here’s the thing…

There are two sides to your life.

There are the IN-Side and the OUT-Side.

As you were growing up, you were told and taught to focus on the OUT-Side of your life.

You were told to do this… don’t do that… you can’t do that… stop doing that…

It was a life of do.do.do…. dodo!

Can you relate?

How has that worked out for you thus far on your journey?

Now don’t get me wrong… Life is about taking action and getting things done, but if that is the only thing you are focused on, then you might end up doing things that just never needed to be done in the first place.

Let’s look at the IN-Side.

If you grew up in any type of spiritual community or with parents that played those self-help tapes and went to seminars… then you had some exposure to the IN-Side of who you BE.

It is through this Knowing of who you BE and having it as the guiding principles of your life, that keeps you on track, and in focus of all your dreams and desires you have ever had and envisioned for your life. It is the driver behind your Dream Life, your Business Vision, and what you are truly put on this planet to accomplish.

How awesome is that?

Your very own internal compass that helps you make the best choices for you based on who you BE.

So if we don’t have this IN-Side.. OUT-Side connection happening a few things happen.

  1. If we are all OUT-Side living, we keep doing the do and creating the dodo in our life that spirals out of control and keeps us stuck in a place that we don’t even realize that we are in. We are not even sure if we are doing what we really need to do, and can easily be distracted by others to do what they want us to do instead of supporting ourselves. In this state you have no idea what you really desire and dream of for your life, but even if you did, you probably don’t believe that it is possible for you.
  2. If you are all IN-Side living, you keep in a state of fantasy rather than reality. You constantly see in your mind and soul what is possible for your life, but you never make any choices and take any action to make your dreams and desires into reality. You are stuck in a place of unconsciousness living that holds you back from what is possible for you in your life.
  3. Is the Ying & Yang balance between IN and OUT – Side living. It is both BEING and DOING. This is the optimal place of living our your life fully and having everything you have always wanted, dreamed of and desired.

So here’s how things really work so you can stop the struggle and have success…

You need to shift from DODO or a BEBE to a BEDOBEDOBEDO… Yes that’s right.

Here’s how it works:

First you BE, then you CHOOSE, then you DO!

Then you repeat the cycle.

Who you BE is what you DO

It’s really that simple…. but if you have been stuck in one of the other states for a while now, breaking the habit and choosing this for your life may take some time, discipline and effort.

But know this… on the other side of all that, lies the life of your dreams. It is so worth it.

Go out and try it today.

See how you truly be and what you can choose to do and make it happen.

You’ll be glad you did.

Keep your dreams alive!

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What You See Is How You Be

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Is your environment contributing to your successful life?

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Look around, wherever you are.

What do You SEE?

Even more importantly, what do You FEEL?

Is your environment a reflection of your wants, desires and dream life?

Did you know that the more abundant your evironment feels, the more money you will make, and the more joy, fun, and abundance you will attract into your life.

How does that sound?

Would you like some of it for your life?

Your environment is truly a reflection of you.

What you have in the inside always comes out and is reflected by you through you and your environment to the rest of the world.

So, let me ask you again…

When you look around, what do you see and feel?

Are you happy with what it is or does it stir something up inside of you saying that this has to change?

If you don’t like where you are right now in your life, then choose to change it.

It really is that simple. Make the decision that you are not going to take it any longer and then step into the action that it will take to change it.

Most people are not willing to make such a bold declaration to themselves and then take the action needed to make a difference in their life.

They would rather sit in the crap of what they have already created then go through the pain of what could take them out of it and on towards the life they have always dreamed of.

Which will you choose?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to have what you want and desire in your life?

I mean really, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES?

Alright good.

Here are a couple of things that you can do to help you get started on that journey.

First, stop beating yourself up for what you have done or not done in the past. It’s already over. Get over it and stop kicking yourself about it.

Second, grab a piece of paper and a pen and divide the paper into 2 columns. The first call title it, what I am great at. The second column title it, the crap that I need to get rid of in my life. Now don’t go getting totally down on yourself. Make sure that for each crap thing in your life, you have at least 1 great thing. The great things are in there. I know it and so do you. Just go ahead and get them about along with your crap.

Third, sit with your crap and be comfortable with it. Make friends with it. And then tell it to hit the road because you no longer need or want it in your life. Ask this question: What would it take for me to be rid of all of my crap and allow my greatness to shine through in everything that I do? Now take whatever shows up and run with it. Run as fast as you can towards your life of your dreams. It’s been waiting for you to show up. Now is the time for you to have it.

Finally, clean up your environment. Yow deserve to work and be in a place that inspires you. Clean off that paper on your desk. Through away that stuff that you have not looked at in years. Let some natural light into your space. Buy a plant to keep you company. Yes do it!

What you see is how you will Be.

Are you ready to be who you were born to be?

Let’s get started now.

Keep your dreams alive!

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The Life Of The Living Dead

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When you look around is it like watching the Living Dead?

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Do you see this?

I know that I have.

Most people are walking around as if there was no life within them.

Like the LIVING DEAD!

Can you relate?

I know I can… I’ve been there.

It’s like your heart has gone hard and there is not blood pumping through your body.

It’s like there is nothing going on inside, you are just going through the motions.

Zombie walking through life … trying to get to the success that you want and deserve.

Everywhere I look these days, I see it.

People are turned off, and checked out.

Why does this happen?

How do people get into this state?

How the heck can you get out of it?

We have never lived in a time that we had such access to people and information while at the same time barely being connected with the people we live with each day.

Distractions are everywhere.

Most people do not have the ability to focus for more that at least a few minutes, some it is only a few seconds.

This over stimulation leads people to a state of overwhelm and then to the place where they just have had enough of everything and check out.

Zombie’s walking through life… Dead Man Walking!

Now deep down inside of them, they still have their dreams and desires of the greatness they can be in their life.

But it has been pushed down, shoved aside, and torn down so much that they don’t know if it could ever be possible for them.

Hence, they are Zombie’s walking through life on the path to success that unfortunately for most of them, they will never achieve.

If you are feeling this way some of the time, don’t worry. There is hope for you. There is another way. You can snap out of it and change the path you are on to be for fulfilling, fun, and full of the abundance you desire for your life.

It can all change in an instant if you just make a choice and then take action on it.

Make a choice to turn off the distractions that are around you.

Make a choice to take that new action that you know will move you towards your dreams and desires you want in your life.

Make a choice to discipline yourself now so that later you can move with such amazing ease in your life it will be like magic.

Are you ready? Ready to choose another path for your life?

Pick one thing today to leave behind and at the same time pick one new thing to pick up in it’s place that will move you forward.

Share your choices below…

Keep your dreams alive!

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How do you speak to potential customers and clients?

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Do you speak with confidence and power when you are asking for what you want?

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Do you lack energy and passion when speaking with a new potential customer or client?

Most people are so reserved when they speak to others, that they put doubts in their mind that what they are speaking about is even possible.

Have you had that happen to you? Have you had someone try to offer their services to you and you could tell that they really were not interested in what they were selling? Or even worse, did not believe that you could deliver what you say you can?

You had this feeling inside of you that they would rather be somewhere, anywhere else, than being with you at that moment having the conversation?

Have You spoken to people in this way?

I know I have and it still comes up from time to time. It’s ok. It’s all part of the journey. It can be better than that.

So what holds back your energy and passion for speaking with so much Bold Confidence that the other person will have no doubt that what we are telling them can be and will be done?

It all comes back to that FEAR thing that keeps us save and sound, but at the same time holds us back.

This mixed without actually knowing EXACTLY How we are going to achieve the things we tell our customers and clients we can do for them.

It holds most people back and keeps them small.

Are you in that space right now?

What are you willing to do to get out of it?

Would you be willing to make another choice? Choose another action?

Are you willing to Speak UP the the most power and confidence that you could ever imagine for yourself and let people know who you are and what you can contribute to their business and life?

Let me share something with you that you might not realize…

There are people out there in the world that are looking for you. Looking for you as the one who can be the greatest contribution to who they are and what they can become in their life.

If you choose not so show up and speak up as you truly be, they will have not idea that you are the one they are looking for.

Now how selfish is that?

I know that there are no guarantees in life… and most people are afraid that they will not achieve the outcomes that they want to….

BUT there is most certainly a guarantee that if you choose to do nothing different that what you are already doing, NOTHING DIFFERENT WILL HAPPEN!!!!

So are you willing to STEP UP and GO FOR IT?

Take BOLD ACTION and tell the world what you can do for them?

Now is your time…

People are waiting for you.

Tell the world who you are and how you can be a contribution to them and watch how all the things that you have been wanting and desiring will start to show up…

You deserve it!

Do it NOW!

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Where Do You Put Your Trust?

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Trust, where do you put yours?

It’s so easy in life to put all of your focus on everything and everyone else.

But is that going to create wealth, riches for yourself?

Will it generate the abundance you desire in your life?

Well let me tell you this…

There is nothing around you that will make it happen for you!

The truth is, that it’s and inside job!

Yep, that’s the secret to having everything you want in your life.

All of your desires, and the life of your dreams.

So if you are struggling with the internal drive to make it happen, there maybe this one thing that is holding you back.

That thing is Trust!

Trusting and believing that you deserve the wealth, riches, and abundance that is right in front of you waiting for you to choose it, is what hold most people back.

Sound familiar?

Then what stops so many people from just walking into it and starting to live your dream life today?

A mentor of mine used to say… “Act as if and go as though”

What does this mean?

Act, behave, and think that you deserve what you desire in your life and be willing to make the decisions and choices that show that you deserve it.

When you do this, the people who are looking for you will show up.

It’s all about the person you become.

Who do you want to become in your life today?

What does the life of your dreams look like?

Are you ready to Trust in yourself, believe in your dreams, and step into the wealth and abundance that is right in front of you?

Make the decision to do so, choose today, and step into the life of your dreams.

Share your comments below…

Keep your dreams alive!

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