Archive for March, 2013

Failure Is The Only Option


Could Failure NOT Being An Option Be Keeping You From Your Business Success??

No Failure Zone

Most people spend their life in Fear Of Failing!

Can you relate?

Do you know some of these people?

Have you worked in this way before?

I know that I have, and let me tell you…

It didn’t really get me any where except going around in circles being stuck with where I was.

How does it get any better than that?

You see, most of us are brought up to do what we are told, follow the rules, don’t do anything wrong and FAILURE IS NOT A OPTION!

Really, how the heck can we go through life and live out our dreams if that is the way we have to be.

When you look around and study the great leader, inventors, and creators of this time and the past, you will find that they all did the opposite of what they were told, what people said they should do, and the failed a lot!

In fact, I have come to believe that on the path to success and the life of your dreams…

Failure is the ONLY OPTION!

How has failure played a role in your life and business?

Are you afraid of it?

Does it worry you?

Does it keep you up at night?

Well let me tell you, it doesn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to feel like failure is something that you did wrong.

One of the greatest inventors in history, Thomas Edison, was asked a question about failure at one point in his career.

They asked him about the 10,000+ times that he failed in his journey to invent the light bulb.

To which he replied, I just learned 10,000 ways how not to create one.

It is all a matter of perspective when it comes to failure.

And also the choice that you make when you stuff shows up around things that don’t go just as planned.

On the journey towards the life of your dreams, you will come across many times where things don’t work out the way you wanted and there will be people there to let you know that that is the reason why you should stop continuing to pursue your vision of the future.

When those things come up, I suggest the following:

1. Take a deep breath and remind yourself of what your vision and dream life is. Feel what it will be like once you are there, and let that feeling be the driving force behind you continuing to move forward.

2. Make the choice to keep moving forward. Remember your decision that you made to start on this journey in the first place. Let that fuel you to continue on the journey.

3. Ask powerful questions like, What’s right about this situation that I am not seeing here? Or What else is possible?

4. Take massive action to move you forward and push past the so called failure that is right in front of you.

Failure is only what you choose for it to be. If it wasn’t they everyone would see the same failures as everyone else.

So the next time something doesn’t go exactly as planned and people around you are dragging your down, or maybe even that voice in your head starts barking at you… Remember your dreams and vision and choose to continue on the journey.

You’ll be glad that you did.

To your massive success!

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Winning At The Wrong Game


What game are you playing in your life and business?


The journey of life is like a game.

Would you agree?

Think about it for a minute.

Isn’t everything that you do in your life organized in a way that will produce the outcomes that you have been telling yourself that you want over and over in your head?

Looking at your past, you can see the step by step blueprint that got you to where you are right now.

It’s the Play by Play.

And what do most people do with that blueprint?

They burn it into their mind and play it over and over again in their life.


Can you relate?

Have you been playing the instant replay of the game of your life over and over again?

How’s that working out for you?

How is that helping your to get to the desired life you have always dreamed about?

Is it really helping?


Is it just keeping you stuck?

It reminds me of the Movie Ground Hog Day with Bill Murray.

Check out what he went through day after day…

He live the same day over and over and over again until he makes a choice to do something different and then in an instant it changes.

How would you like your life to change in an instant?

To finish the game you have been playing for years and years and just start a new one today, right now.

To give up on that old game and boldly go where you have never been before.

It all starts with the decision.

You telling yourself that it’s game over, your not going into overtime again today, it’s done!

What are you willing to do to end the game of your life that you have been playing in order to start a new one now?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

You can do it!

You deserve it!

Make it happen now!

Stop winning at the wrong game in your life.

Choose your new game of the best life that you have always dreamed of.

And continue to ask yourself…

Am I playing the right game?

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What You See Is How You Be


Is your environment contributing to your successful life?


Look around, wherever you are.

What do You SEE?

Even more importantly, what do You FEEL?

Is your environment a reflection of your wants, desires and dream life?

Did you know that the more abundant your evironment feels, the more money you will make, and the more joy, fun, and abundance you will attract into your life.

How does that sound?

Would you like some of it for your life?

Your environment is truly a reflection of you.

What you have in the inside always comes out and is reflected by you through you and your environment to the rest of the world.

So, let me ask you again…

When you look around, what do you see and feel?

Are you happy with what it is or does it stir something up inside of you saying that this has to change?

If you don’t like where you are right now in your life, then choose to change it.

It really is that simple. Make the decision that you are not going to take it any longer and then step into the action that it will take to change it.

Most people are not willing to make such a bold declaration to themselves and then take the action needed to make a difference in their life.

They would rather sit in the crap of what they have already created then go through the pain of what could take them out of it and on towards the life they have always dreamed of.

Which will you choose?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to have what you want and desire in your life?

I mean really, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES?

Alright good.

Here are a couple of things that you can do to help you get started on that journey.

First, stop beating yourself up for what you have done or not done in the past. It’s already over. Get over it and stop kicking yourself about it.

Second, grab a piece of paper and a pen and divide the paper into 2 columns. The first call title it, what I am great at. The second column title it, the crap that I need to get rid of in my life. Now don’t go getting totally down on yourself. Make sure that for each crap thing in your life, you have at least 1 great thing. The great things are in there. I know it and so do you. Just go ahead and get them about along with your crap.

Third, sit with your crap and be comfortable with it. Make friends with it. And then tell it to hit the road because you no longer need or want it in your life. Ask this question: What would it take for me to be rid of all of my crap and allow my greatness to shine through in everything that I do? Now take whatever shows up and run with it. Run as fast as you can towards your life of your dreams. It’s been waiting for you to show up. Now is the time for you to have it.

Finally, clean up your environment. Yow deserve to work and be in a place that inspires you. Clean off that paper on your desk. Through away that stuff that you have not looked at in years. Let some natural light into your space. Buy a plant to keep you company. Yes do it!

What you see is how you will Be.

Are you ready to be who you were born to be?

Let’s get started now.

Keep your dreams alive!

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The Life Of The Living Dead


When you look around is it like watching the Living Dead?


Do you see this?

I know that I have.

Most people are walking around as if there was no life within them.


Can you relate?

I know I can… I’ve been there.

It’s like your heart has gone hard and there is not blood pumping through your body.

It’s like there is nothing going on inside, you are just going through the motions.

Zombie walking through life … trying to get to the success that you want and deserve.

Everywhere I look these days, I see it.

People are turned off, and checked out.

Why does this happen?

How do people get into this state?

How the heck can you get out of it?

We have never lived in a time that we had such access to people and information while at the same time barely being connected with the people we live with each day.

Distractions are everywhere.

Most people do not have the ability to focus for more that at least a few minutes, some it is only a few seconds.

This over stimulation leads people to a state of overwhelm and then to the place where they just have had enough of everything and check out.

Zombie’s walking through life… Dead Man Walking!

Now deep down inside of them, they still have their dreams and desires of the greatness they can be in their life.

But it has been pushed down, shoved aside, and torn down so much that they don’t know if it could ever be possible for them.

Hence, they are Zombie’s walking through life on the path to success that unfortunately for most of them, they will never achieve.

If you are feeling this way some of the time, don’t worry. There is hope for you. There is another way. You can snap out of it and change the path you are on to be for fulfilling, fun, and full of the abundance you desire for your life.

It can all change in an instant if you just make a choice and then take action on it.

Make a choice to turn off the distractions that are around you.

Make a choice to take that new action that you know will move you towards your dreams and desires you want in your life.

Make a choice to discipline yourself now so that later you can move with such amazing ease in your life it will be like magic.

Are you ready? Ready to choose another path for your life?

Pick one thing today to leave behind and at the same time pick one new thing to pick up in it’s place that will move you forward.

Share your choices below…

Keep your dreams alive!

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The Frequency of Your Success


What frequency are you running at?


High? Low? just middle of the road?

Do you have any idea how the frequency that you are operating at affects the things that come in and out of your life?

Most people have no idea and are totally oblivious to how others see and perceive them.

And at the same time, these people wonder why the have a hard time having others to trust them and believe in them.

Do you know what happens to these people?

They end up just coasting through life, just getting by, and never really achieving and experiencing the life of their dreams.

Let’s face it, we were put on this planet to live our life full out. To experience everything thing that is available to us and so much more!

Do you think that operating at a low or just getting by level of energy is going to help you to experience the fullness of your life?

I didn’t think so.

So what does it take to dial up your energy and stand out above the crowd?

Did you know that if you raised your energy just 1% more than everyone around you, people would start to notice you in a totally different way?

Image just for a second what that can feel like…

Pretty good eh?

Now what would happen to your life if you dialed up your energy 5% more than most other people?

Can you see what that would be like? Can you feel what would happen inside of you?

It would be like you are standing on the top of a mountain reaching for the stars in the sky.

Anything would be possible for you and everyone around you would be looking to you to inspire them to reach that same level of energy themselves.

You would be at a level where infinite possibilities would come into your life on a regular basis.

How does that sound? Do you want some of that for your life?

I know I sure do?

So I know what your thinking now… That sounds great, but how do I dial up my energy and stand out above the crowd.

Let me give you a couple of ways you can do that…

1. Move your Body. Yes, get your body moving and your blood pumping. The best way that I like to do this is to turn on some music and crank it up loud and dance around (well mostly jump around since my dancing according to my daughter, isn’t that great LOL). What’s your favorite tune? Put it on, crank it up, and get your energy to a new level like it has never been before (or at least in a while).

This is one of my favorite energy boosting songs right now…

2. Take care of yourself and your body. How you feel about yourself and your body will change the energy that you put out into the world. Take a look in your closet and at the cloths that you have. As you scan through them, feel the energy that comes over you. When it increases, pick that one and put it one. Take a look at yourself in the mirror and smile. Watch your energy sore. If you want to get really wild, then go out to a clothing store and shop for something new to wear. Listen to how your body feels as you try things on and get yourself some new cloths that make your body sing with joy when you wear it.

There are just a couple of ways that you can raise your energy and push your life to a whole other level.

If you are ready to step into the life of your dreams that is waiting for you, then just do it.

Make the choice today to raise up your energy above what you have been doing and stand out above the crowd as the leader that you truly be.

You will thank yourself for it later, and many people will thank you for stepping it up and being their to serve them in ways that you could not before.

What ways to you increase your energy and dial up your success?

Share them below…

Keep your dreams live!

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How do you speak to potential customers and clients?


Do you speak with confidence and power when you are asking for what you want?


Do you lack energy and passion when speaking with a new potential customer or client?

Most people are so reserved when they speak to others, that they put doubts in their mind that what they are speaking about is even possible.

Have you had that happen to you? Have you had someone try to offer their services to you and you could tell that they really were not interested in what they were selling? Or even worse, did not believe that you could deliver what you say you can?

You had this feeling inside of you that they would rather be somewhere, anywhere else, than being with you at that moment having the conversation?

Have You spoken to people in this way?

I know I have and it still comes up from time to time. It’s ok. It’s all part of the journey. It can be better than that.

So what holds back your energy and passion for speaking with so much Bold Confidence that the other person will have no doubt that what we are telling them can be and will be done?

It all comes back to that FEAR thing that keeps us save and sound, but at the same time holds us back.

This mixed without actually knowing EXACTLY How we are going to achieve the things we tell our customers and clients we can do for them.

It holds most people back and keeps them small.

Are you in that space right now?

What are you willing to do to get out of it?

Would you be willing to make another choice? Choose another action?

Are you willing to Speak UP the the most power and confidence that you could ever imagine for yourself and let people know who you are and what you can contribute to their business and life?

Let me share something with you that you might not realize…

There are people out there in the world that are looking for you. Looking for you as the one who can be the greatest contribution to who they are and what they can become in their life.

If you choose not so show up and speak up as you truly be, they will have not idea that you are the one they are looking for.

Now how selfish is that?

I know that there are no guarantees in life… and most people are afraid that they will not achieve the outcomes that they want to….

BUT there is most certainly a guarantee that if you choose to do nothing different that what you are already doing, NOTHING DIFFERENT WILL HAPPEN!!!!

So are you willing to STEP UP and GO FOR IT?

Take BOLD ACTION and tell the world what you can do for them?

Now is your time…

People are waiting for you.

Tell the world who you are and how you can be a contribution to them and watch how all the things that you have been wanting and desiring will start to show up…

You deserve it!

Do it NOW!

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